Who should plan the date?

In an era of modern technology and so many choices out there, planning a date can often be confusing and left to the last minute, leading us to the dreaded exchange of “What do you want to do?” “I don’t know, what do you want to do?”

When men are vague or unclear about what to do on a date, it frustrates women to no end but interestingly enough women are jumping in and planning the date. Women complain that men aren’t assertive enough and take the lead with dating but start instantly planning the date. Why are women planning the dates? Do women think men are incapable of using the internet or asking a friend where to take them? Are we getting impatient?

Women are amazing planners, multitaskers, and organizers. While he is texting you about where to meet up, you are probably online looking up “best cocktail bar” in your area and sending him websites, and emailing about reservations..Just stop. Stop doing everything and leave some space for a man to follow through with asking you out. If he’s the one that asked you out in the first place, give him a little time and space before you become the concierge of dating.

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Why you should date a shorter man

I’m having a cup of coffee with a friend the other day and she says:

Friend: “Did I tell you about that short guy I’m dating?”

Me: “Wait, how tall is he?”

Friend: “5’ll”

Me: “How tall are you?”

Friend: “5’11”

Me: “He’s not short, he’s your height”

When I ask a women what type of guy she likes, more times than not in her top three characteristics she will say “tall”. Why is height our top priority?

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