Phantom Date

Have you ever had the most amazing date with someone, never to hear from them again? Or maybe it’s going really well, he’s texting and calling consistently and seems really into you…then poof! He’s gone.

Phantom date.

(Not that type of Phantom Date…that would be hot!)

Where did he go? What happened? He just seemed to disappear without warning. Did I say something wrong? Did I do something to turn him off? Maybe he lost his phone? Maybe he got back with his ex? Maybe he got in a car accident and he is in a ditch somewhere and nobody can find him and his phone is just out of reach and that’s why it’s still ringing but he can’t answer it, OMG I have to go find him!!!

Ok, bad things do happen, but maybe….just maybe, he’s not calling you because he doesn’t want to. Damn Karen! Harsh! I know, it’s the usual “he’s just not that into you” if he’s not calling speech.

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